,[object Object],, the American actress known for her roles in “Parks and Recreation” and “The White Lotus,” recently opened up about navigating life after the tragic death of her husband, ,[object Object],. Baena, a writer and director, died by suicide in January 2025, a loss that has profoundly affected Plaza. She spoke publicly for the first time about her grief during a candid conversation with her former co-star Amy Poehler on the podcast "Good Hang." Plaza described her sorrow as “a massive ocean of sheer misery that is always present,” and likened the experience to the sci-fi horror film "The Gorge," where monstrous figures threaten from the depths of a dangerous gorge. For Plaza, this analogy captures the feeling of grief lurking constantly, sometimes inviting her to plunge into it, other times making her want to escape it, but never letting go.

Plaza and Baena had a long-standing relationship that began in 2011, culminating in marriage in 2021. They collaborated professionally on multiple film projects, including "Life After Beth," a 2014 horror-comedy directed and written by Baena with Plaza starring, and later films such as “The Little Hours” (2017) and “Spin Me Round” (2022). Despite their creative partnership and strong personal connection, reports indicate that they had separated about four months prior to Baena’s death. Plaza has expressed deep gratitude for Baena’s support and collaborative spirit throughout their time together, recognizing how rare and meaningful it was to share that connection in both their personal and professional lives.

The impact of Baena’s suicide on Plaza has been profound. The actress described her current state as “functioning,” but acknowledged that it is “a daily struggle.” She conveyed an emotional honesty about the constant presence of grief, detailing moments when she just observes the pain, sometimes feels compelled to fully immerse in it, and occasionally tries to distance herself from it. She also asked for privacy amidst the outpouring of public sympathy and attention. Plaza withdrew from public appearances immediately following Baena’s death, including stepping back from her role presenting at the 82nd Golden Globe Awards. Fellow filmmakers and colleagues have publicly expressed their condolences, with director Brady Corbet dedicating a heartfelt moment to Baena and Plaza during his Golden Globe acceptance speech.

In her interview, Plaza not only shared the difficulties she is facing but also her intention to keep moving forward and gratitude for being able to navigate life despite the heavy pain. Her comparison of grief to the relentless monsters in "The Gorge" symbolizes a persistent struggle but one she is confronting daily. Plaza's openness provides a raw and poignant glimpse into the ongoing challenge of coping with loss while trying to maintain a sense of normalcy. Though the pain is "always there," she continues to function and face each day with resolve, seeking moments of gratitude even amid tragedy.